Divorce can feel like a time filled with uncertainty, but it can also be the beginning of a fresh start. The decisions you make today can help create the foundation for the life you want tomorrow. That’s why having a plan matters. From your home and retirement...

Divorce comes with many decisions, and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by all the choices in front of you. The good news? You don’t have to make those decisions without guidance. A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®) can help you better understand how decisions...

When you're going through a divorce, it’s easy to become focused on reaching a settlement and finally moving forward. But the choices you make during divorce can follow you long after the papers are signed. Jodie Lane, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and founder...

Children benefit from consistent routines, open communication, and reassurance that both parents will continue to be there for them. Simple things—like maintaining bedtime routines, attending school events, or keeping family traditions alive—can provide comfort during...

Not every divorce begins with a dramatic argument or a major event. Sometimes, it starts long before anyone files the paperwork. This is often called a **"quiet divorce."** A quiet divorce happens when a couple remains married but becomes emotionally disconnected....

Many people hire an attorney during divorce, but few realize they may also need a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®). In fact, most people do not even need an attorney. A CDFA helps evaluate the financial side of...

Divorce is one of life’s most emotional transitions, but it doesn’t always have to be filled with conflict. Many couples today are choosing peaceful divorce options like mediation, collaborative divorce, and financial planning support to reduce stress and protect...

Divorce isn’t just the end of a relationship—it’s the restructuring of your entire financial life. From bank accounts to retirement plans, every decision you make now will shape your future. One of the biggest mistakes people make is focusing only on what feels “fair”...

Divorce is emotional—but what often gets overlooked is how deeply it impacts your financial future. In the middle of difficult conversations and major life changes, it’s easy to make quick decisions just to move forward. But those choices can carry long-term...

Is this your first holiday season since the separation or divorce where you’ll have to spend part of it without your children? It’s tough, and the first year is usually the hardest. But it doesn’t have to be all bad. It will simply be different. Here are a few tips to...

When couples choose mediation for their divorce, they often assume all mediators offer a similar experience. In reality, there are three distinct styles of mediation, each with its own approach, goals, and outcomes. The type of mediation your professional is trained...

Once divorce becomes a real possibility, your thoughts probably jump straight to the future. The fear sets in quickly: I can’t afford to live on my own. How much of my income will I have to give up? Am I going to end up broke? There’s usually a flood of unknowns, both...

Divorce is emotionally overwhelming, and it’s easy to make financial mistakes when you're under stress. But the choices you make now will impact your future. Here are four common money mistakes people make during divorce and how to avoid them. 1. Underestimating...

1. Rediscovering "Me Time": You finally have time to focus on yourself—no more juggling everyone else’s schedules! Dive into hobbies, pamper yourself, or just enjoy the peace of doing absolutely nothing. 2. Freedom to Redecorate: Want to turn the spare room into a...

Yes, a divorce mediator can remain neutral because they are trained to understand and consider the needs of both parties. Mediators help each person address their concerns, such as child custody, property, finances, and other important issues. They guide the couple...

Most relationships begin with the excitement of falling in love, dreaming of a future together—maybe with a couple of kids and a dog, creating the perfect picture of a happy family. However, what people rarely imagine is what happens if that love, respect, and...

FINALLY! After an emotional roller coaster, you receive that 8 ½ by 11 manila envelope with your divorce decree signed by the judge. You are officially single again. Whether you choose to celebrate or mourn, remember that there are still important tasks to take care...

Many couples going through a divorce understand that some amount of spousal maintenance or alimony is necessary, but they often don't know how much or for how long it should be paid. Most attorneys will rely on your budget figures, but in my experience, these numbers...

It probably comes as no surprise that individuals who ultimately decide to divorce had their first thought about that possibility more than a year before it actually happens, and often many years before. Even with early signs, the decision to dissolve a marriage is a...

When it comes to divorce, half of the people involved will hear the news, while the other half will deliver it. Let's begin with what you should avoid doing! Many people handle this poorly. You can't predict how your spouse will react, especially if infidelity is...